The root cause of children's consumption luxury and adulthood lies in the changes in social atmosphere. Children's values ​​come from what they see and hear. When the whole society is chasing material enjoyment, children will inevitably expect to consume more.
It’s coming to Children’s Day, and it’s hard for parents to worry about how to give gifts to their children. After all, with the improvement of living standards, children have begun to compare with holiday gifts, which makes "festival consumption" taste.
According to Zhejiang Online Report, a parent posted a message on the Internet saying that the child asked him to use the iPad as a holiday gift, and he felt that he could not afford it. It is said that "a set of new clothes 500 yuan, accompany him to eat a children's package 300 yuan, the toy spends a few hundred dollars, this is already the oldest three, and now he tends to compare with me when buying a holiday price Expensive things." One interviewee said that his son is 9 years old and is in third grade. Last year's Children's Day, Dad gave him a laptop, and this year the child asked to buy a tablet.
In fact, after a holiday, the consumption of parents has been hundreds of thousands, and tens of thousands of people are also very common. Many parents have called their children's holidays to become their "robbing the sun." Moreover, children's gifts are becoming more and more "adult", and their desires are concentrated on high-end electronic products, which are not affordable for every adult.
The root cause of children's consumption luxury and adulthood lies in the changes in social atmosphere. Children's values ​​come from what they see and hear. When the whole society is chasing material enjoyment, children will inevitably expect to consume more.
I do not advocate simple and rude denial of spending a lot of money on children's consumption. On the contrary, I think it is not a bad thing to let children experience a certain degree of high consumption when economic conditions permit.
There is a saying in the old saying: Three generations of prime minister, learn to eat and dress. It is said that the cultivation of personal taste is largely due to the accumulation of money. It is necessary to personally experience how to deal with it before it can transform the understanding of consumption into individual competitiveness. The "world" that a person has never seen before will eventually become a shortcoming of personal value in a certain sense.
Of course, it may also become a way for children to go to worship gold, to indulge in material enjoyment and not to struggle. Moreover, children are easy to breed and compete with each other, and the happiness brought about by “consumption†will lose meaning, and it will be transformed into a kind of self-satisfaction that constantly fills the rising desire.
However, although the social environment is difficult to change, parents are duty-bound to educate their children. In other words, how to define the child's consumption behavior is good or bad. In the final analysis, it depends on how the parents guide and what effect they finally achieve.
If you can better manage your child's expectations, and help them establish a good consumer attitude, so that they will not be easily tempted by material after obtaining the consumer experience, and let the children know that all enjoyment must be won by their own efforts, then Money naturally won't be white. If you let your child develop a bad habit of vanity comparison and good fortune, then it is "the habit is like a killer."
In today's environment, basically no parents can deliberately let their children live a hard life under the premise of being at home, in order to "work their body and body," so the shaping of the concept of wealth is particularly important. To borrow a word, one must become a "master" who can control wealth, and cannot be controlled by wealth to become a "sinner." For parents who are not good at this, how to spend the Children's Day is very easy for the child to bury the hidden dangers of money due to the problem of money. But if handled properly, Children's Day is a good time to cultivate financial business.
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